Why do people tends to SHOUT when they're ANGRY?
One day, a professor asked his students 'Why do people SHOUT when they are ANGRY?'
All the students kept thinking of this. One of the students answered 'Because we lost our "calmness", That's why we SHOUT.'
The Professor asked again: "But the person is just right next to you, why can't we talk softly but have to SHOUT?"
Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor.
Finally, the professor spoke out ~ "When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other."
As we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we're being drifted apart further, so we SHOUT even louder...
The Professor continued saying: "What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why?
This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepen, we reached a state of communication where there is no longer needed to speak out.
"Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that`s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other." The Professor concluded this.
When you argue, do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return. WAIT for a few days. When you feel, your hearts are no longer far apart, only pick up the conversation and continue from there.
